At the very foundation of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs is shelter, a basic human necessity that gives us safety, stability, and a sense of belonging. Yet for many of us, having a place we can truly call our own feels like a distant dream. Living with parents or relatives may be practical, even necessary at certain seasons of life, but it often comes with limitations: lack of privacy, unspoken expectations, and the quiet feeling of being “temporary” in someone else’s space.
Like many people, I longed for a home not just as a physical structure, but as a space where I could grow freely, make decisions without guilt, and build a life with intention. I wanted a place where rest felt real, where my values could take root, and where small improvements could reflect personal victories. This desire wasn’t about luxury, it was about dignity, independence, and peace of mind. That dream, though simple, required faith, careful financial choices, and a willingness to learn things the hard way.
This blog series documents my home ownership journey: from searching and financing, to moving in, fixing things up, and learning lessons along the way. It’s a story of trusting God while doing the math, of starting small, and of turning an ordinary house into a meaningful home through patience and persistence.
Here’s an overview of the series and what each part will cover:
In This Series
This series is for anyone who dreams of having their own place but feels limited by circumstances. It’s for those willing to start where they are, use what they have, and believe that slow progress is still progress. My hope is that through this story, you’ll find encouragement, practical insight, and the courage to take your own next step, whatever that may be.
If this story resonates with you, I’d love to hear where you are in your own journey. In Part 1, I share how the house hunt unfolded, the doubts, decisions, and the moment I finally chose to commit. You can read the full Part 1: The House Hunt here and follow along as the journey continues.
